When a child is seeking proprioceptive input, telling them to sit still is like telling a hungry child not to be hungry. It doesn’t solve the biological need.
In Occupational Therapy, we use a strategy called “Heavy Work.” This refers to any activity that involves pushing, pulling, lifting, or carrying heavy objects.
While it seems counterintuitive to give an energetic child more physical work, heavy work is actually one of the most effective ways to calm the nervous system. Deep pressure and resistance activities release calming chemicals in the brain (like serotonin) and decrease sympathetic arousal (the “fight or flight” response).
Think of it like a “Sensory Cup.” A sensory seeker needs to have their cup filled to feel satiated. If the cup is empty, they will run and crash until it is full. Heavy work fills that cup faster and more efficiently than random running, allowing the child to feel regulated, focused, and calm.
A Note for Parents
If you see your child crashing into the sofa or playing too rough, try not to view it as bad behavior. View it as a signal: Their tank is empty, and they are trying to fill it.
By offering heavy work activities before the chaos peaks – for example, doing wall push-ups before sitting down for homework – you can help your child regulate their energy levels proactively. You aren’t just burning off energy; you are organizing their brain so they can engage with the world more successfully.
At OTogether, we believe in giving you the tools to support your child’s unique wiring. If you need help building a specific sensory diet for your child, our team is here to guide you.